“Decide that you want it more than you are afraid of it.” What in your life you’d like to change? Anything specific that you want to achieve? Whatever your wants may be, it is important you have clearly defined set of goals (in NLP, we call it WFO – Well-Formed Outcome). Otherwise, it would be …
Neuro Linguistic Programming
Mindset of an Extreme Project Manager
Are you a Project Manager (PM)? Oh yes? Then you might agree with me that it is like wearing a crown that comes with a burden. As Project Managers, we need to adapt to different people, cultures, environments, and situations. Essentially, the project manager is accountable for the success or failure of a project. Thus, …
Change the way you feel and the world you feel will change
Did you know that you can change the meaning of your experience? When our perception of an experience changes, that leads to changing our state; which in turn facilitates a change in our responses and behaviours. An Unpleasant Experience As with most, the company I worked at conducts annual performance appraisal exercises for its employees. …
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Rapport with the Difficult Devil
Most of us encounter a “devil” at least once in our lives. And some of us are a “devil” ourselves. 😉 In this blog, I want to share my experience with one such person who I refer to as the Difficult Devil (hereinafter referred as “DD”) and how I built rapport with her. The Days of …
Command & Control Your State
State is our way of being at any given moment, consisting of our physiology, our thoughts, and our emotions. Our states are the frontlines of our experience and affect our meaning of that experience. States also affect our capabilities, thereby impacting our outcomes. It is important to be aware that our states are created by …
My Transformation: Enhanced Version 2.0
The “Me” before We all know that life is not always a bed of roses; there are ups and downs to it. Some have it easy; some have it hard; and others harder! Before my transformation, I used to think that mine is a rough terrain. The endless list of problems I had (or thought I …