Are you looking to become a leader of some sort? Or have you recently started on a leadership role? Are you either doubting yourself or feel overwhelmed by it all? It takes time and effort to be a Leader, there is no short cut. If you are new to the block, then you should read …
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Safeguard Yourself
Do you struggle to assert your needs and feelings to others? Do you get into conflicts with others? Do you end up taking on other people’s problems? Then it will do you good in learning how to safeguard yourself from others’ sh!t. Problem Ownership It is important to manage problems, not just with yourself but …
Communication with Humans
Do you often struggle to make people see your point of view? Do you often get caught in arguments and miscommunication with others?? Do you often just want to give up communicating at all with people? The pain point is a bunch of human beings who impact our lives one way or another, and you …
Your North Star
Have you ever thought about what your personal mission statement is? Ever contemplated on your true calling? It is my belief that everyone has their North Star. Do you know what yours is? Routines, no Rainbows in Sight Most people tend to be defined by Tradition, Culture, or Society. Most people don’t know that they …
Defy the Norm
Did you know… that norm is a deceptive impression? It blinds us from our truth, distracts us from our beliefs and values, and restricts us from living our own story. What’s with the Norm? When I say norm, I’m referring to the “rules” set by tradition, culture, society, and whatnot. Have you ever felt stuck …
That Which You Want
“Decide that you want it more than you are afraid of it.” What in your life you’d like to change? Anything specific that you want to achieve? Whatever your wants may be, it is important you have clearly defined set of goals (in NLP, we call it WFO – Well-Formed Outcome). Otherwise, it would be …
Mindset of an Extreme Project Manager
Are you a Project Manager (PM)? Oh yes? Then you might agree with me that it is like wearing a crown that comes with a burden. As Project Managers, we need to adapt to different people, cultures, environments, and situations. Essentially, the project manager is accountable for the success or failure of a project. Thus, …
Change the way you feel and the world you feel will change
Did you know that you can change the meaning of your experience? When our perception of an experience changes, that leads to changing our state; which in turn facilitates a change in our responses and behaviours. An Unpleasant Experience As with most, the company I worked at conducts annual performance appraisal exercises for its employees. …
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Rapport with the Difficult Devil
Most of us encounter a “devil” at least once in our lives. And some of us are a “devil” ourselves. 😉 In this blog, I want to share my experience with one such person who I refer to as the Difficult Devil (hereinafter referred as “DD”) and how I built rapport with her. The Days of …
Command & Control Your State
State is our way of being at any given moment, consisting of our physiology, our thoughts, and our emotions. Our states are the frontlines of our experience and affect our meaning of that experience. States also affect our capabilities, thereby impacting our outcomes. It is important to be aware that our states are created by …